Forgiveness has its cost, but its gains are well worth it because it brings
freedom. Sometimes the relief is immediate. Sometimes it is a longer process,
but freedom will come and we are better people for it. Our words will no
longer carry that edge we think others haven’t noticed. Our unforgiveness is
no longer visible in our jokes, our jabs, and our body language. When there is
forgiveness we look differently, feel differently, and respond differently. We can
get on with what God wants for us. When we recognize our need to forgive
and actually pass the forgiveness exam, we have more emotional energy, we
are healthier, and we are free! And that was His plan all along.
2 comments:
I can't say any of this book has been easy, in fact everyday brought a new challenge. Forgiveness seems to be the hardest when your hurting. It doesn't matter who you are, or what position you stand in life. Hurt still hurts the same. But we serve a big God and he is in the healing business. I thank God daily for healing my heart, and helping me see if I have caused any pain towards others. A couple weeks ago there was a challenge to bless the ones that put your down, demean you. That was hard because the entire time I'm trying to do the right thing, I'm thinking they will think I am just trying to suck up to them....but it wasn't about what they thought, or how they received my gift. It was about me obeying, following Him, and the second I handed over my gift to bless them, I had immediate peace for myself.
I messed up this morning and responded in a way that hurt another person. Even before I read today's journal writing, I had to ask forgiveness. The whole process is an emotional roller coaster, but when dealt with immediately, at least the day isn't wasted on worry or anger or all the other emotions connected with this.
I am so thankful that my God is teaching me about forgiveness and most importantly, that He forgives me. Thank You, Lord.
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